Date Rape
Not all sexual attackers are strangers who jump you in the streets. Sexual assaults can take place during social interactions such as dates while you are out with someone you know.
Beware dodgy drinks
In most cases of 'date rape', alcohol is the substance used to assist in forcing non-consensual sex from a partner. In other cases, drinks may also be 'spiked' by date rape drugs such as GHB, rohypnol and ketamine so that resistance is neutralised or to render the victim unconscious.
Personal responsibility for personal safety
Take responsibility for keeping yourself safe from date rape by taking a look at the recommendations below:
- Remember to watch how much you're drinking
Alcohol is the most common rape drug (your drinks can be spiked with alcohol or more alcohol than you think). - Be aware of your tolerance to alcohol
If you feel odd, nauseous, or unusually drunk after a couple of drinks when you'd normally feel fine, go somewhere you feel safe. - Tell a friend if you think your drink was spiked
If you are with a friend you trust, tell them why you're worried. Get them to help you home and ask them to stay with you until the drug has worn off. - Seek assistance
If you are alone or with a stranger, go to the pub landlord or manager and ask for their help. Wait in their office while they ring your partner, a friend or a taxi to take you home safely. - Don't let a stranger help you
They could be the person who spiked your drink. - Never ever leave a drink unattended
If you go to the toilet or out for a cigarette, take your drink with you or finish it before you go. If for whatever reason you have left it unattended do not drink it. - If a stranger offers you a drink do not accept it
Even if workmates or acquaintances offer you a drink make sure you see it either poured or opened and ensure that no one touches it except the barperson prior to drinking it. - Undetectable
Remember many of these drugs are tasteless, odourless and some are colourless. - If you meet someone new at a party don’t go home with them
Don’t invite them back to your home or accept a lift from them. Arrange a second date in a public place to get to know the person better. - Pay attention to your instincts
If you feel uneasy about someone, there may be a reason – don’t give them personal details about yourself and don’t arrange a second date.
Also see:
- Youth Unlimited Issue 2B
Read more about Date Rape and Rohypnol in Youth Unlimited Magazine.